Adult Views

I met my husband in a singles encounter at our local church. He was a breath of fresh air when I first saw him. He was well mannered and very gently and has a smile glued to his face. I had my eyes fixed on him during that time, it was a perfect first encounter from a distance that is. Sadly, I never got a chance to talk to him after that singles encounter.

Before I went on serious relationship, I was an avid fan of Internet dating. I would always allot time during the time of the day to surf the net for possible people in the Internet dating sites who, justlike me,may be interested in dating. Well, I did not actually feel that it is something serious since for most of the feed backs I got I was aware that many people engage in internet dating more of a fling, a past time that is.

After that first encounter with, Donnie (my husband’s name) during the single’s encounter he never slipped my mind. He made a niche in my heart that during that time was something bitter sweet because I’m not hoping that I will see him again. But fate is really mysterious, one time while I’m doing my grocery I bumped at him at the meat section. I was startled, shocked, mesmerized and all emotions mixed in one during that time. I felt I looked stupid and so obvious that I have special feelings for him that I’m actually hoping to see him again. But it was a sweet moment. I apologize for bumping into him and he melted me in his sweet smile, “its OK, no problem”. I was about to walk away when he asked, “Aren’t you one of those attendees at the singles encounter?” “Yes, I was.” It was all I can say. Surprisingly, he asked for my name and asked if we can have a coffee after we do our grocery. It was an amazing feeling, of course I said yes to his invitation. It was almost a miracle and I thought of that moment as my first dating experience with this amazing person. That moment was the start of the most precious relationship that I have right now.

Now, I have very little faith over internet dating because I would always believe that nothing matches meeting people in person and knowing who they areally are.