Adult Views

Dating women is an art. It is not something as ordinary as your daily routine because it involves a heart, it involves a woman. Once you go wrong when dating women, it will become often, and will eventually develop into a habit. So do not go wrong the first time so you won't have any regrets.

I am a woman myself and I know how my species think. I know how we want to be treated. Here are the few tips that I can share.

Firstly, a woman doesn't want to be treated like a princess! It's true. We are not princesses, we are humans. Therefore, we want to be treated like real human beings. To treat us like an idol is a major no-no. We want to see the best in the you, the men who date us. But we also want to see what also makes you human---your weaknesses. We want to be dated by truthful men who are not afraid to show us their romantic bone.

Secondly, the first date may not tell everything about the guys who take us out. But it definitely gives a reflection of the person we're out with. During this crucial instance, we want to take each moment slowly, yet earnestly. We don't want to rush into doing things. We are contented at just having a small quiet dinner, an honest conversation, and maybe a little tour around the city afterwards would really be appreciated. A dance after dinner is fine as long as it maintains decency and respect.

Thirdly, spontaneity is the key word to winning any woman. We never like guys who are unsure of what they do. If you decide to take us out the first time, you must be at least 60 percent sure that you really want to take us out on a date. Do not be like a bubble who's here now and gone the next minute.

Dating women is not a difficult thing. To some up my tips above, we might say dating women involves honesty and sincerity. You do not need to have the best wheels in town. You need not be the hottest quarterback of the football team. Looks and material possessions come only second to the sweet heart and sympathetic ears. Remember, Spiderman did not have much to give Mary Jane. But his humble self made all the difference.

It is not true that women come from Venus and men are from Mars. We are humans alike. We all feel love and we all want to be loved.